So through the manual MLM setup, I need to set up my own mySQL database on the host? I that the lm folder had everything I needed to create a mySQL database? I didn't see that in the tutorial page... maybe that's why automatic wasn't working for me.
So I've been stuck trying to setup my ml_settings.php with the right mySQL hostname/login, but I can't figure out what to put in here. I'm inputting my host, which I thought would be bestbloggers.com (you can see my page setup at bestbloggers.com/public/lm/lm.php). I've also tried my IP address...